I started yet another self remodel as well as a house remodel. As I scraped ceilings, I realized I needed to scrape off old beliefs and ideas. I couldn't keep patching what wasn't working. I had to take out rotten floor boards and fix a shaky foundation.
When a mentor asked, "You know you have a hurt inside that needs to be healed?", it was a relief that someone else saw the "real" me. My assignment was to reconcile the past story of me, no matter how silly it seemed.
Anger was buried under humiliation, shame, fear, confusion. I couldn’t articulate in junior high that I had lost my power, but I felt squashed and shrank to a smaller person in order to survive - my survival technique throughout my adult life.
Buried alongside the hurt were dormant superpowers. By devaluing the past, I had also underestimated my abilities. It cost me so much time to find out how to let go of the past. The grail I was looking for was within me the whole time.
If I can reclaim and rewrite my next chapter. YOU CAN TOO!!
It's time to channel your emotions and claim your superpowers!
These are my underlying assumptions in working with you:
⬤ No one is broken.
⬤ NO dumpster diving into every hurt in your life-there are 1 or 2 stories where you lost your value.
⬤ When you resolve your hurt, superpowers will emerge.
⬤ Until you resolve your past, you are destined to repeat it.
⬤ Time does not heal all wounds, it just buries them deeper.
⬤ Action creates transformation.